Is this the End of the "Butch Dyke"?

"Anne Lister, (1791-1840) the First Modern Lesbian"

This is uncharted territory for me – possibly even a minefield, given my heading. Nevertheless I want to speak my mind – or at least write what happened in my attempt to think, after I heard two speakers talk on transgender issues at the conference I attended in New York. I'm writing this post to try to make sense of an issue that puzzled and confused me. Why would I do this - especially since it includes labelling, stereotyping, generalising and probably being politically incorrect....? I'd love to know what this article evokes for you. So I invite you to comment.

After talking to several people after the conference, I conclude that I am probably not the only one who might be confused. Other than possibly a few science fiction writers and their readers, mutability of gender confounds most of us. Not that I hadn’t heard about the ‘T’ of LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered) before. I just ignored it as a really minority issue that I would never have to take on board.

Women's Bodies (part II)

Video highlights of Endangered Species gives a taste of what the London summit was like. Why 'Endangered Species'? Susie Orbach says: The young woman who can feel free to explore her interests without being preoccupied by how her body appears or focus on what procedure she should have in the future to change it, is becoming an ‘endangered species’.

Sibongile Khumalo - jazz and classical singer

Here in South Africa we still have a multiplicity of images of women that inspire us, but for young women they are fading fast. The quest for the perfect body is in the ascendancy. As Susie says, Body Hatred is one of the West's most nefarious exports. Look at this ad. for deodorant in which Lira, a hugely popular singer in our country especially among young women, says: The whole world is like a stage and I have to look perfect all the time.....We are being manipulated to use a product which has nothing to do with looks, the inference being that if we perspire less we can be perfect like Lira. What is implied about the natural propensities of our bodies to perspire and for that matter smell, is just another well-known addition to the catalogue of Body Hatred. For a wonderful contrast to all of this take a look at the football grannies, who have also been used in advertisements. However young women are not the target of these. 
I wonder if people know of some other South African examples of Body Hatred production that they'd like to share?

International Women's Day

This year it is being said that March 8 was the 100th anniversary of International Women's Day and that is why many organisations are coming together in this month in an international effort to re-examine issues of women's oppression. This is what Susie Orbach had to say about the work that still needs to be done after the London summit of "Endangered Species": 
Girls don’t see themselves reflected and so they try to change themselves to mimic what they see. Last Friday in London, young women from all over the country came together to show us what they are doing to combat this tyranny and to create a new visual culture. There was joy in the room as they showed their fight back and dared to love their bodies. We all vowed to stop the trafficking of body hatred throughout the world. It is not an easy struggle. It can be written off as trivial. But it isn’t. We all know it eats away at us. That’s why we are campaigning. Join with us to get our bodies back.

What do women commemorate on March 8th?

Women's Bodies

An extraordinary event is about to take place in London, Buenos Aires and other cities across the planet – an international summit on how our bodies are shaped and controlled by outside influences - the media, the dietmongers, the passion for makeovers in the entertainment industry, the arts, increasing use of plastic surgery by celebrities, the fashion industry – the list is endless.
Presumably inspired by the song by Dianne Reeves the summit is called "Endangered Species". It has been initiated by former colleagues of mine – Susie Orbach and Luise Eichenbaum - who started The Women’s Therapy Centre in London and the Women’s Therapy Centre Institute in New York City in the late 70’s and early 80’s.